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Be Careful When Following Law Of Attraction Advice

By Marcie Goodman


In a world that doesn't have the ability to care about you or what you think, Law of Attraction advice isn't something that should be taken seriously. When considering a difficult decision, you are much wiser to think about consequences than you are to try to overpower it with "positivity". For most situations, there are precedents that can be called upon as examples and you can see how it will often work out.

It is a sad fact that the world does not care and life isn't fair. People personify it on a daily basis despite these facts. They imbue it with feelings and emotions because they are uncomfortable with the fact that it does not react to them or their feelings and it does not make them feel special or unique. This is harmless in many cases but it isn't harmless all the time.

With these assumptions, by smiling a lot and telling people about the nice things in your life, you would reap great rewards. Negativity would be canceled from your life and everything would be peaceful. All of this would be initialized just by being more positive. It's sad but true that it isn't necessarily the case.

The other end of this argument is that if you focus on the negative aspects of life and put forth a negative personality, you will attract negatives. Negativity feeds on other negativity and in order to become less negative, you could try to allow less negativity into your life. If you tend to get discouraged by negative people and attitudes, you can sever the ties you have to the people and things that bring that to your life.

Cutting those ties is a lot more easily said than done, sometimes. If it is your family that bring negativity into your life, you can't very well abandon them but you can choose to show a positive attitude to them. In this way, hopefully, you can affect them in a more positive manner and help them to attain a more positive outlook on life.

By attracting more positive people and thoughts you can also influence the thoughts and people around you. It is truly one of those "be the change you want to see in the world" type of situations. Just by reinforcing positive thoughts in yourself, you can reinforce the positive thoughts of the people that you influence. In this way it is a cyclical thing that propagates itself.

The fact of the matter is that a positive outlook will not affect what is happening. "Like attracts like" says that if you have the mindset that your spouse is cheating, it will turn out that way and that on the other hand, if you have the mindset that your spouse is not cheating, it will turn out that way. If you follow this kind of philosophy, you are misguided.

Certainly, the positivity with which you approach the situation can have an impact on how you handle the outcome but it will not have any bearing on the actual outcome. It is much more reasonable to understand it as it is, realistically, and then to approach it all with the proper attitude. As heart-wrenching as it may be, reality doesn't change with your perception of things. Law of Attraction advice is not going to help you but you can help yourself.




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